Hair is brown again.
I should probably update you on my hair less.
Morning Fluff: Smitty stares solemnly at Marmaduke, desperately trying to figure out what the hell Owen Wilson was thinking.
[dpaf.]
Oh my goodness.
I dreamt that Luke was Rihanna but insisted that I didn’t refer to him as some kind drag queen because he wasn’t, he was just Rihanna. ”It’s so weird that you have a beard right now but are actually Rihanna.”
[Flash 10 is required to watch video]
When you get so used to someone trying to take your picture that you give up responding in any way.
I also like this one but Luke hates it because, y’know, to be fair, he does look a little bit creepy.
President Obama, yelling at Presidential Candidates after they do nothing to stop the booing of gay soldiers.
Cynthia Nixon Says Being Gay ‘Is a Choice’
croatoan: sleepingwithmonsters:
Cynthia Nixon, forever Miranda and now starring in Wit on Broadway, spoke to the New York Times about her relationship with partner Christine Marinoni, and the controversy her opinion has stirred:
I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a gay audience, and it included the line “I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay, and gay is better.’” And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me. A certain section of our community is very concerned that it not be seen as a choice, because if it’s a choice, then we could opt out. I say it doesn’t matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not.
She then added:
Why can’t it be a choice? Why is that any less legitimate? It seems we’re just ceding this point to bigots who are demanding it, and I don’t think that they should define the terms of the debate. I also feel like people think I was walking around in a cloud and didn’t realize I was gay, which I find really offensive. I find it offensive to me, but I also find it offensive to all the men I’ve been out with.
PREACH.
hmmm
HOW IN THE MOTHERFUCK DO YOU SAY PREACH TO THIS? Are you fucking serious? She is obviously a bisexual woman, and saying that it’s a “choice” for everyone else just completely takes away from us actual gays. We so don’t fucking choose to be gay. If we could choose, don’t you think we would probably choose a cozy life free of harassment from bigots? I have just lost all respect for this woman. She is talking out of her fucking ass.
I guess the point that’s sadly being missed here is that she’s not saying it’s a choice for everyone. She’s saying it was a choice for her. And if one human being feels a certain way, you can’t even begin to deny that they do. It has absolutely nothing to do with you, and asking somebody to change their feelings, or rather lie about them for the sake of a certain community doesn’t seem to be very fair. Demanding that all people who consider themselves homosexual should state the same thought process, feelings and opinions on their sexuality in order to prove* that they’re gay feels a bit out of place for me. And I suppose, if other people want to say preach to it, or find something they agree with in it, you also can’t deny that. Sexuality might be a subject that feels heavier than others which is understandable, but just like when one person hates that new album and the other tells them “you’re wrong! It’s the best thing to ever happen to music!”, there can’t be a right or wrong, we’re all just forming opinions and there can’t be a standard to live up to.
Y’know. In my opinion.
*She is obviously a bisexual woman, and saying that it’s a “choice” for everyone else just completely takes away from us actual gays.
